Staff duty

well tonight was duty night for my husband and a long night for me. I know that someone has to be at the desk at  all times, but why not have someone do it in the day and then a different person  at night. It is hard for them to stay up all night. Our house is very busy right now we are trying to potty train and intrdution a toddler bed to are youngest one. He dose not like the bed at night but he loves it during the day to  play on. I'm just thinking what will get him to like this bed and sleep in it, but he will like it at sometime. As always wounder what it will be like this time when my SO deploys aging. Will it be like last time or will a whole new thing happen? I don't know and I will never know. maybe that is why I can't sleep at night anymore.